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n a fast-paced world where the demands of modern life often leave us yearning for solace and rejuvenation, the allure of a retreat becomes irresistible. Our recent vacation to Kanha Shanti Vanam encompassed four days of immersive serenity, self-discovery, and connection with nature.

A Sanctuary of Serenity

Nestled amidst nature's embrace, Kanha Shanti Vanam was more than a mere retreat – a sanctuary of serenity. Surrounded by lush greenery, chirping birds, and the soothing embrace of fresh air, we immediately disconnected from everyday life's chaos. 

Embracing Mindfulness and Meditation

The heart of our retreat lay in the practice of mindfulness and meditation. Guided by experienced facilitators, we embarked on an inward journey that encouraged us to be present in each passing moment. We discovered the art of silencing the mind's constant chatter through mindful breathing and focused meditation sessions. This practice enhanced our self-awareness and enabled us to appreciate the beauty of the present moment.

Community and Connection

The retreat wasn't just a solitary journey but a shared experience that fostered connections with like-minded individuals. Engaging in meaningful conversations, sharing stories, and practising yoga together created a sense of camaraderie that transcended the boundaries of the retreat. The power of collective energy amplified our reflections and added depth to our insights.

Embracing Discipline

One thing that surprised me was how much I got into a routine. At Kanha Shanti Vanam, the peaceful environment naturally led me to eat my meals on time and wake up early. It was like my body and mind synced with the calm surroundings, reminding me of the importance of maintaining good habits.

Discovering Heartfulness Meditation

At the retreat, I was introduced to something beautiful called Heartfulness meditation. It's a simple way to connect with the love and light within our hearts. It felt like a warm embrace for my soul, which I've carried back home. It's incredible how such a gentle practice can make you feel so centred.

A Break from Screens

You won't believe how little I used my phone during those days. The serene atmosphere made me realize how much time I spend staring at screens. Instead, I focused on nature, conversations, and moments of quiet reflection. It was like my eyes were opened to a world I had forgotten.

A Peaceful Haven for All, Including Adi

My son Adi joined me on this journey, and seeing him enjoy the tranquillity around me was heartwarming. Children often show us how to appreciate the simple things in life, and his joy in the peaceful surroundings was a beautiful reminder that we all need moments of stillness.

A Community Radiating Joy

From the moment I arrived, the atmosphere at Kanha Shanti Vanam was infused with positivity. I encountered a community of individuals who were both content and genuinely happy. Their smiles were contagious, and their conversations were full of warmth. It was clear that they had found a more profound connection within themselves, reflected in their interactions.

Discovering the Meaning of Seva

Seva, a concept I encountered at Kanha Shanti Vanam, opened my eyes to a different way of thinking. It's about selflessly serving others without expecting anything in return. As I witnessed community members engaging in acts of kindness and helping each other, I realized the immense satisfaction that comes from contributing to the well-being of others. Seva was not just a word but a way of life that fostered a sense of fulfilment beyond measure.

Sharing Dormitories, Sharing Stories

The idea of sharing a dormitory with strangers was initially daunting. But, as I settled in, I realized this arrangement was a beautiful metaphor for life. Each person had a story to tell, experiences to share, and perspectives that expanded my horizons. The dormitory became a microcosm of society, where co-living taught me tolerance, understanding, and the art of compromise.

Learning to Coexist Harmoniously

Living in close quarters with others taught me valuable lessons in coexistence. We all had our quirks, habits, and preferences, but we found ways to adapt and respect each other's space. It was a lesson in patience, empathy, and finding common ground – invaluable skills in a world filled with diverse individuals.

The Beauty of Sharing and Caring

The heart of the community at Kanha Shanti Vanam was the willingness to share and care. Whether it was a simple meal, a heart-to-heart conversation, or assistance during daily activities, the emphasis on helping one another was profoundly moving. This shared sense of responsibility created a sense of belonging that transcended individual differences.

Discovering Inner Harmony

Kanha Shanti Vanam became a space where I could retreat from the noise and distractions of daily life and truly connect with myself. It was as if I had found the key to inner harmony, where I could listen to the whispers of my heart and understand my purpose with clarity.

Aligning Body and Mind

I discovered the significance of aligning my body and mind during my stay. Meditation, yoga, and mindfulness taught me how to bridge the gap between my physical and mental well-being. This newfound alignment brought a sense of balance and tranquillity that I was determined to carry.

Expanding Horizons through Diverse Experiences

Meeting people from diverse walks of life was an eye-opening experience. Each person carried a unique life story, and these stories acted as windows to different perspectives. It was like a kaleidoscope of life experiences that broadened my thinking and allowed me to appreciate the richness of human existence.

Beautiful Lessons learned 

One of the most beautiful lessons I learned came from friends, encapsulated in these lines:

"मत कर माया को अहंकार, मत कर काया को अभिमान

काया गार से काची, काया गार से काची, जैसे ओस रा मोती

झोंका पवन का लग जाये, झपका पवन का लग जाए

काया धूल हो जासी"

These lines resonated deeply with me. They taught me not to let pride cloud my understanding of the world and to treat my body with humility, as fragile as a piece of straw. They reminded me that a gust of wind can reveal the true essence of life and that, ultimately, our bodies are as transient as dust.

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Aug 25, 2023
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