Why More Parents Are Choosing Integrated Parenting

o you sandwich your work in your life or sandwich or your life in between work?

This is a question that more parents are starting to ask themselves as they try to find a balance between their work and personal lives.

Traditional parenting life

Traditionally parenting  life starts With a morning rush for work and schools in each house. This is followed by a race to get home, make dinner, do homework and get to bed so that it can start all over again the next day.

It's no wonder that families are feeling stressed and disconnected.

Kids are shaken up to eat, bathe, catch the school bus. They are coming home to an empty house because both parents are working.

This daily cycle can have a negative effect on children's development and family relationships.

Some children when they grow up feel very disconnected  from their parents, because they were not around when they were growing up and its not fair to blame them .

When parenting responsibility is outsourced?

Generally parents don't have time to drop kids to schools, or attend school functions, help kids at home, everything Is outsourced.

Outsourcing parenting can have a negative effect on children's development and family relationships. In most families a kid start his say in school staying away from parents for long hours, only to come home and attend different classes , hobby activities, and not to mention the time spent on homework.

When parents outsource their parenting responsibilities, they are missing out on important bonding moments with their children. They also miss out on opportunities to teach their children essential life skills.

I know many parents who regret that they could not spend enough time with their kids  when they were growing up, they wish  they could have been more involved in their lives.

What are parents and kids missing being away

If you have been that child who has spent most of their life in schools, colleges and work that hardly left any time to spend with your family  then you can understand what I am saying.

There is more to life than just school and work.

I have personally missed so many festivals, family functions , many of my friends wedding and many more important events in my life because I was too busy with work or school.

Now that I am a parent, I don't want my children to miss out on important moments in their lives just because I am too busy working.

Life is not just working or going to school -  life is a balance of many different things.

Somewhere we are giving a message to kids that their life should revolve around schools only,  which is not the truth. Life includes cooking, resting, celebrating, time for family, house chores, caring for sick and old people etc.

Parent are realising that Life is more than school and work

They are starting to see the importance of having a balance in their lives.

They are also seeing the importance of being present in their children's lives.

Many parents are sharing  that they regretted not spending enough time with their kids when they were growing up and now they are trying to make up for lost time.

Some parents are even quitting their jobs to spend more time with their kids.

I know it's not possible for everyone to do that, but there are ways to find a balance between work and family

Why most parents are choosing to integrate parenting with their work?

With integrated parenting, parents work from home or have flexible work hours so that they can be more present in their children's lives.

This type of parenting has many benefits for both parents and children. For parents, it allows them to have a more active role in their children's lives.

They can be there for important moments, like first steps or a child's first day of school. They can also help with homework and be involved in their child's extracurricular activities.

Children also benefit from having a parent who is more present in their lives. They can develop a stronger emotional bond with their parent and feel more supported.

Studies have shown that children of parents who are actively involved in their lives tend to do better in school and have better social skills.

Benefits of integrated parenting

It can provide a greater sense of balance and harmony in their lives. When work and parenting are separate, it can be easy to feel like you're always pulled in different directions. Having them be more integrated can help you feel like you're doing both well, rather than feeling like one is always suffering.

Integrating work and parenting can actually make you more productive at work. When you don't have to worry about rushing home to see your kids, you can focus more on your work and get more done. And, when you're able to take breaks during the day to play with your kids or just be present with them, you'll find that you're less stressed and more productive overall.

What parents are experience when they are involved in their kids life ?

When parents are involved in their children's lives, they often report feeling happier and more fulfilled. They also feel like they're able to be more patient with their kids and have more meaningful relationships with them.

Being an involved parent can also help you develop a stronger bond with your partner. When you're both working together to raise your children, you can develop a deeper level of understanding and communication.

A new generation of parents

Many parents are now sharing about their work and life balance  on parenting forums and social media. They are openly talking about how they feel more fulfilled when they are able to integrate their work with their parenting responsibilities.

Fathers are sharing about their involvement  in their children's lives and how it has improved their relationships. They are also talking about how they feel like they are able to be more present for their kids when they have a more flexible work schedule.

Mothers are also sharing about their experiences with integrated parenting. They are talking about not having to leave their jobs to raise kids  and how they are able to have more meaningful relationships with their children.

Some parents are even choosing to leave their jobs  so that they can be more present in their children's lives. While this is not a option for everyone, it is becoming more popular as parents feel like they need to be more involved in their children's lives.

This new trend of integrated parenting is something that is here to stay. And, it's something that more and more parents are considering as they balance the demands of work and family life.

How to take care of the finances?

If you're thinking about integrating parenting with your work, there are a few things to consider. One of the most important is how you'll take care of the finances.

If you're used to working full-time, you may need to make some adjustments to your budget. You may need to find ways to save money so that you can afford to work part-time or from home.

Actually there is a rise in parents choosing to work from home so that they can save on childcare costs.

There are a number of ways to save money when you're working from home. You can get creative with your living situation and downsize to a smaller home or apartment. Or, you can get rid of your car and rely on public transportation.  

You may also need to make some changes to your lifestyle. You may need to cook at home more often and eat out less. You may need to limit your entertainment expenses.

Making these kinds of changes can be challenging, but they can also help you save a lot of money. And, they can help you free up more time

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